~ Between Love n Marriage ~

Love is holding hands in the street.
Marriage is holding arguments in the street.

Love is dinner for 2 in  favorite restaurant.
Marriage is a take home packet.

Love is cuddling on a sofa.
Marriage is one of them sleeping on a sofa.

Love is talking about having children.
Marriage is talking about getting away from children.

Love is going to bed early.
Marriage is going to sleep early.

Love is a romantic drive.
Marriage is arrive on tops curvy tarmac .

Love is losing your appetite.
Marriage is losing your figure.

Love is sweet nothing in the ear.
Marriage is sweet nothing in the bank.

TV has no place in love.
Marriage is a fight for remote control.

Love is 1 drink and 2 straws.
Marriage is "Don't you think you've had enough!".

 
Conclusion: 
"Love is blind, Marriage is an eye opener!"

~ Islam is Beautiful ~

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A British man came to Sheikh and asked:

Why is it not permissible in Islam for women to shake hands with a man?
The Sheikh said:
Can you shake hands with Queen Elizabeth?
British man said:
Of course no, there are only certain people who can shake hands with Queen Elizabeth.
Sheikh replied:
Our women are queens and queens do not shake hands with strange men.

Then the British man asked the Sheikh:
Why do your girls cover up their body and hair?
The Sheikh smiled and got two sweets, he opened the first one and kept the other one closed. He threw them both on the dusty floor and asked the British:

If I ask you to take one of the sweets which one will you choose?
The British replied:
The covered one.
The Sheikh said:

That’s how we treat and see our woman...

 




When you commit yourself to living love, you feel at peace with yourself
because you are at harmony with the flow of life. 
Viewing life from the highest perspective, you feel confident and secure.  
You realize that no matter how
things may appear, you are loved and protected.  
You know you are one with
God, and you bring your peace with you wherever you go. 
You’re not
looking for love,
 but for opportunities to love.

~ Acceptance ~

When people asked me .. 
how you treat life? ..
my answer is simple... be like a river .. just flow ..
the key is acceptance .. 

 I accept life unconditionally.  Most people ask for happiness on condition.
Happiness can only be felt if you don't set any condition.

 Everything has its wonders, even darkness and silence,
and I learn, whatever state I may be in, therein to be content.

 Life is not always what one wants it to be, but to make
the best of it, as it is, is the only way of being happy.

 Growth begins when we start to accept our own weaknesses.


 Acceptance is observation of life and
suspension of judgment about whether what
is happening is good or bad, right or wrong.

 Acceptance is not submission; it is acknowledgement of the facts
of a situation, then deciding what you're going to do about it.

 Everything in life that we really accept undergoes a change.
So suffering must become love.  That is the mystery.
  

Acceptance of what has happened is the first step
to overcoming the consequence of any misfortune.

 The first step toward change is acceptance.  Once you accept yourself, you open the door to change.  That's all you have to do.  Change is not something you do, it's something you allow.



 Acceptance is a letting-go process.  You let go of your
wishes and demands that life can be different.  It's a conscious choice.


 Let us learn to accept ourselves--accept the
truth that we are capable in some directions
and limited in others, that genius is rare,
that mediocrity is a portion of almost all of us,
but that we can contribute from the storehouse
of our skills to the enrichment of our common life.

 To teach people how to live without certainty
and yet without being paralyzed by hesitation
is the lesson of learning acceptance.

 Acceptance of one's life has nothing to do with resignation; it does not
mean running away from the struggle.  On the contrary it means accepting
it as it comes. . . .  To accept is to say yes to life in its entirety.



 God does not make clones.  Each person is different, a tribute
to God's creativity.  If we are to love our neighbors as ourselves,
we must accept people as they are and not demand
that they conform to our own image.

 Life has no other discipline to impose, if we would but realize it, than to accept life unquestioningly.  Everything we shut our eyes to, everything we run away from, everything we deny, denigrate, or despise, serves to defeat us in the end.  What seems nasty, painful, evil, can become a source of beauty, joy, and strength, if faced with an open mind.  Every moment is a golden one for those who have the vision to recognize it as such.

~ Introspection ~

 

One who never speaks up, is not necessarily unlettered
Like a parsnip, he silently matures
One who is eloquent, is not necessarily highly educated
Like an empty drum, he can blow the loudest hot air
One who knows how to distinguish
a piece of glass from a diamond
is the one who should be called a scholar
though he may not hold that special piece of paper

One who is lost in the lure of glamour
whose only concern is to be famous
always follows the habit of the hen
She lays an egg, the whole village knows
One who consciously seeks the truth
is not hard up for any recognition
In fact he emulates the habit of the turtle
who lays hundreds of eggs, yet no one knows

One who is only good at criticizing others
is actually jealous, or may have forgotten his
own weaknesses . One who likes to moralise
though his own character is obnoxious
should look into the mirror
and not be a great pretender
And one who is always cynical, deeming others
as hypocrites, has he looked within himself?

The truth is, everyone is equal
nobody is perfect.

~ Stay True To Yourself ... ~

~ Dont Judge The Book ... ~

-  Judging others makes us blind, whereas love is illuminating. By judging others we blind ourselves to our own evil and to the grace which others are just as entitled to as we are.   

-  We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation.

-   It is easy to find fault,
If you judge people, you have no time to love them.
Try to look inside you,
try to improve yourself first
before trying to improve others !
and finally remember,
Love is the Key !!

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