Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Where Do You See Yourself In Five Years?...........

It is one of the more popular question asked during a job interview and also one of the most daunting to answer. Where do you see yourself in five years?

It is one of my most hated questions of all time. Where do you see yourself in five years? I'd loved to answer that because I live my life on the edge, therefore I don't think about so many years down the line,  I can't seem to look past 12 months at most, what more 60 long months ahead. So this is my stumbling block whenever someone presents me with this question.

I haven't been able to go beyond my current moment because truth be told, I hate looking so far ahead into the future. What I have is today and what I want is to focus on the here and now. Of course, like any normal human being, I do worry about the future but as they say who knows what tomorrow holds, so why the anxious wait for 5 years? Time can be so fleeting sometimes.

For this precise reason, I have learned that our present moment counts the most. We need to make the best of what we have now and not let our worries get the better of us. We need to see that tomorrow will take care of itself somehow; it may not be what we're hoping for but therein lies the key – hope.

We still feel hopeful that life will eventually get better and we can wake up to a better future. We can make it through another day. Funny but life will take care of itself somehow. Hold onto that hope. It is where you can keep your dreams alive and help strive through every day. I know that's how I've managed so far.

Many may take that this is not the ideal way to live life. Some may even say you're not planning enough for a secure future. But isn't one of the greatest joys in life is to tread into the unknown?

Sure, we need that progression to move into something bigger – greater job role, higher income and own a house or two? It is a natural progression that you yearn for more of this and that. But the question that needs to be asked is when is it enough? As your life expands, you are hunger for more but what if you get all that you set out for within the five years but lose your soul? Or health?

Contentment is a word that many have not been privileged to get to know. Happiness is elusive.

So, why wait for five years to feel happy when you can enjoy it now? You say it's hard when life is so cruel but it is just a matter of perspective. Don't let the circumstances make who you are but rather separate yourself from the immaterial things and count your blessings.

Don't put your life on hold for five years. Look for the little miracles every day that you often take for granted. Trust me, you will feel blessed enough and not sweat the small stuff. The joy is living in your present moment.

Thursday, December 26, 2013

Time Waits for Noone



 There is no way to run from a hardship. It is what it is...nothing more. Either live life being angry and unhappy with a hardship or live life being happy and optimistic with a hardship. You cannot go back and change the struggles and hardships you may be facing...

 To realize
The value of a sister
Ask someone
Who doesn't have one.

To realize
The value of ten years:
Ask a newly
Divorced couple.

To realize
The value of four years:
Ask a graduate.

To realize
The value of one year:
Ask a student who
Has failed a final exam.

To realize
The value of nine months:
Ask a mother who gave birth to a stillborn.

To realize
The value of one week:
Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize
The value of one minute:
Ask a person
Who has missed the train, bus or plane.

To realize
The value of one-second:
Ask a person
Who has survived an accident.


Time waits for no one..
Treasure every moment you have.


Friday, December 6, 2013

I Miss you ..........

Today is friday.
A lovely morning with fresh air ............ 
 sitting by the window with the wind whistling comfortably, suddenly reminded me of an old friend who could not be contacted. I was thinking .. where is he?

He was such a nice person ... so sad .. missing him so much.
Where are you my friend .. I miss you ..
Our memories made me smile ... how I miss them ... the jokes and the laughter that we shared together....
If you read these my dearest friend .. please contact me ... I need  to see you standing infront of me ..
honestly I miss you so much ...

On 1st february 2014 .... my daughter Fatin will get married ..
Will you come my dearest friend ? I would like to invite you .. please contact me dear ..
I really don't know how and where to look for you ... honestly I miss you so much ..

2013 will be leaving us ..
We are not getting young any longer .. 
So .. I beg you .. before I close my eyes .. I would like to see you ..
We are in the waiting lists to be called by the Almighty ... so .. before it's too late, I need to see you ..
Forgive me my dearest friend if I ever hurt you in anyway .. 
Honestly .. you always in heart