" Give It A Thought......................."

( Mon, September 10, 2007 - 9:22 PM)

Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we LoVe
we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who LoVe us.
We miss out on so many beautiful things
simply because we allow ourselves to been slaved by our
own selfish concerns.

Go for the man of deeds
not for the man of words ,
for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you LoVe
but the man who LoVes you more.

The best LoVers are those who are capable of LoVing from a distance,
far enough to allow the other person to grow,
but never too far to feel the LoVe deep within your being.
To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to stop LoVing,
it only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without expecting
him to come back.

Letting go is not just setting the other person free,
but it is also setting yourself free from
all bitterness, hatred, and anger that keep in your heart.

Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength
and weaken your faith
and never allow pain to dishearten you
............ but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing it.

You may found peace in just LoVing someone
from a distance not expecting anything in return.

But be careful,
for this can sustain life
but can never give enough room for us to grow.
We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past
but real peace & happiness come only
with open acceptance of what reality is today.

There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice
and beautiful and we just find
ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person.
This feeling soon become a part of our everyday lives
and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions
The sad part of it is
when we begin to realize
that this person feels nothing
more for us than just a
friendship.

We start our desperate attempt to get noticed
and be closer
but in the end our efforts are still unrewarded
and we end up being sorry for ourselves.

You don't have to forget someone you LoVe
What you need to learn is
how to accept the verdict of reality
without being bitter or sorry
for yourself.

Believe me....
you would be better off giving that dedication and LoVe ...
to someone more deserving.

Don't let your heart run your life,
be sensible
and let your mind speak for itself.

Listen not only to your feelings but to reason as well.
Always remember that if you lose someone today,
it means that someone better is coming tomorrow:

If you lose LoVe that doesn't mean that you failed in LoVe.
Cry, if you have to, but make it sure that the tears wash away the hurt
the bitterness that the past
has left with you.

Let go of yesterday .....
LoVe will find its way back to you ...........
when it does,
pray that it may be the LoVe ......
that will stay and last a lifetime. ...........